Speak up and assert

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Dietmar Zilz
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2 years ago
Dietmar
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Practice gentle discussion and defensiveness when being walked over by your partner / ex-partner.

I give up my will and cannot stand up as I love the mother of my children but she is abusive and this is because she was abused as a child and she feels resentful about me.

So I believe this is difficult for many in relationships and without practice you will go wrong.

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